How to Let go and Move on?

To One Who is Struggling with "Letting Go"

Set It Loose To Get It Better 

We all desperately want our lives to get better and to make it the desired way, we keep hustling so hard that things often lose their charm. We are eventually left with the burden of fragmented pieces of hopes and happenings.

To breathe effortlessly in life and move forward, we need to declutter this. The result can be twin fold. Either the existing things will get better or you will welcome better things that are waiting for you. God may have something else in his store, better than the life we had planned. We never know!

Holding on to old anger, guilt, irreparable loss, betrayal, unfulfilled love etc. will only add to our load whereas setting things loose will allow you to breathe. There are many people in our lives who we need to forgive in order to smoothen our journey for life. Let go of the love who is already gone. If God has plans, you will find them again. Holding on will never make you strong. Don’t mistake that.

Yes, letting go is never easy, but it is doable. Once you decide to unlatch the doors and windows of your inner self, nothing under the sun can stop you from letting go and refresh.

The idea is to lose the hold on those things. Offer them enough room to heal and eventually get better. It is not a one-time practice, it is like showering. We do it daily (most of us do!).

It doesn’t take as much as strength to hang on but it takes a lot to let go. So, set yourself loose, just breathe and let life happen. Now you’ll be breathing more. Do not procrastinate further. Now it is the very moment to begin the process.

Always Remember

Do not love something so deep that letting it go leaves you almost impossible to breathe.

You can’t loose what was never yours. You can’t hold on to what you never had or what doesn’t want to stay.

It will hurt undeniably. Allow it to bleed. Let the healing journey begin.

Quitting the situation would never give your a stable solution to any fucking problem. You may quit situation A and enter B. Finding B troublesome again, you will swift to Z, only realising that Z is no different. My friend, life has got a potpourri of all emotions. And there is no escape, no matter whichever way you take. So the trick is to make the bumpy ride gleeful. Trust me, you will meet the magic, god is at work.

Acceptance is the key to unlock your cheerfulness clothed in contentment. Never lose your belief in the future.